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I do not decide exclusively upon my own criteria whether we should work together.  Primarily that has been decided by my current clients who have been very specific as to their preferences and criteria…just like you would be if you were a client.  This is the ONLY Denver matchmaking service that does not have ANY reviews stating the client was set up with people who did not fit their specified criteria.  So, don’t take it personally and don’t blame the messenger (me) if I feel that we shouldn’t work together.  Rather be grateful that I told you the truth and did not scam you out of your money!

Listed below are rules that I go by along with the specifics my clients set forth.

Just to try and make things simple, following is a list of traits that will tell you if you and Bon Jour Matchmaking Service are a good match:

  1. You have read to some extent through this website;
  2. You understand the philosophy of Bon Jour as a matchmaking service NOT a dating service;
  3. You perceive my clients as a clientele NOT a database;
  4. You are NOT obsessed with how many people I have because once I hear your preferences that number will surely drop;
  5. You are looking to meet age appropriate matches NOT people much younger who don’t want to meet people in your age range;
  6. You understand that meeting a bunch of people who do not fit your preferences and criteria is not what I do here.  For example: packages of dates for a finite period of time;
  7. You understand that you are only matched with people both who fit your preferences and you fit theirs;
  8. You are willing to listen to and perhaps follow my coaching;
  9. You may meet as many people as you feel are an appropriate match, however the goal is to be discerning enough that you meet the “right” one on your first or second match…regardless of how long that takes to happen;
  10. Your goal is to meet the RIGHT person NOT a bunch of the wrong people and that may take time;
  11. You understand that the perfect person may not be on file the exact day you interview;
  12. You understand that this is not a race.  We are looking for the “right” person and that may take time thus the open-ended contract.  You are in the service until you reach your goal.

If you feel that this describes you then call me for your FREE phone consultation!  No appointment necessary for that.


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