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EVERYTHING YOU WANT TO KNOW ABOUT THIS DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE

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I DEAL IN REALITY

This service deals in honesty and reality.  If you are calling to hear someone only confirm what you think this is probably not the service for you.  I accept or reject clients STRICTLY according to the preferences and criteria of my clients.

A woman called this morning and when I asked her age (63) she right away said I DO NOT WANT TO MEET MEN THAT AGE.  I LOOK GREAT AND THEY WOULD NEVER KNOW MY AGE!  My answer is first of all I’m not accepting women over 55 at the moment because men in that age range often want to date much younger women so obviously they are not going to go to 63 regardless of what you look like.  She then proceeded to tell me how superficial my men are after just declaring the EXACT SAME THING!  She wasn’t going to give anyone near her age range a chance…because she wants what she wants…no different than the men.

I merely try to explain my clientele, compare it with what you are looking for and tell the truth.  I know that is a novel concept these days but I actually tell the truth as it is at that point in time.  My experience with both men and women is they want what they want for the most part.  If I find that not in line with my clients or unrealistic I will suggest this is not the service for you.

Even after 28 years I’m still learning about people.  Many people just want someone to agree with their perspective and if you don’t they get mad.  If that is you and you don’t want the facts and the truth save yourself a phone call and I wish you the best of luck.  There are tons of local services who will gladly say whatever you want to hear to get your money…

DON’T SHOOT THE DENVER MATCHMAKER (MESSENGER)

If you read through the bulk of the reviews of many Denver dating services and Denver matchmakers you will see a consistent theme.  That the people who used them were not introduced to people who fulfilled their criteria and preferences.  That is constant across the board…except for Bon Jour Matchmaking Service.  Don’t think there’s even one review stating anything like that!

So, after 28 years and an established clientele and as a REAL professional Denver Matchmaker, the fact that I interview every single client allows me to know without a doubt the types of qualities my clients are searching for in a mate.  That is TOTALLY dictated by the clients, I HAVE ALMOST NOTHING TO DO WITH IT!  To achieve what they have hired me to do I need to have the types of clients who fit their requested criteria.  So when people call who are outside of that and I know that emphatically, it would be unethical for me to accept them as a client.  Unethical both for my current clients and for a prospective client.  Is that a really tough concept to grasp????  It seems so…

Yes, during the FREE phone consultation I will ask questions to qualify you just as you will ask to qualify me.  But I don’t make the rules of who is and is not a fit.  That is strictly done by the clients.  That is why Bon Jour does not have reviews like the other services about clients’ criteria and preferences not being followed.

My own criteria is whether you “get it”…the structure, philosophy, concept and whether you and I will work well together to achieve your goal.  So there are a myriad of reasons someone may not be a fit…if I accepted everyone who called I’d be a millionaire ten times over, which I’m not.